When the vet’s pet is the patient – all logic and reason are tossed out the window. Well, at least for this one. My little Bert Doodle is undergoing a procedure to determine whether or not he has cancer. Odds are low, but it’s still very unnerving! So here is my list of okays to all owners with a sick pet:
- It’s okay to feel afraid. Our pets are part of our family and we want them to live a happy and healthy life for as long as they can.
- It’s okay if past experience increases your anxiety. My father died from lymphoma, as did several beloved pets. Now that hovers over my judgement like a thick cloud. Recognizing past hurts takes away some of its power.
- It’s okay to cry. We are our experiences and some things trigger sad memories. It’s okay.
- It’s okay to be worried even if friends and family don’t understand. Some people say stupid things like, “it’s just a dog.” It’s okay for them to be stupid;) Just don’t let it affect you:)
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